Toblerone

Today was an interesting day. It started with me alone with all 7 kids. My wife had a mom's day out with a family friend ( a belated birthday present) and I was left with the daunting task of taking care of the homestead, and all that that encompasses.
So, first thing's first, I made dinner. And the Pizza hut pizza was exquisite. We watched "Igor", a computer animated tail of a young hunchback who dreams of being a real scientist. Then, it was time for bed.
Now, so far, it sounds boring and uneventful. And, it was...You see, at my house, that does NOT happen!!! Bedtime is a ritual filled with torture and gnashing of teeth. Two of my kids, the autistic ones, HAVE to be medicated for sleep. (We have tried without once, and Mr Tobey pulled a 36 hour shift.)
Then it's time for the pjs, the running, the yelling, the fighting, the food frenzy, and ultimately, the crying (done by me). Truthfully, I think I would have an easier time running with the bulls...but this night was different.
I titled this entry "Toblerone" for a reason. That is the nickname my son's pre k teacher (Kate Sullivan, greatest teacher in the world) gave him. Long for Tobey. And, in our house, Tobey is the measuring stick.
We base everything we do on whether Tobey and Edwin can handle the situation. For instance, we are driving down to Disneyland ( or is it world? in Florida? I can never get the two straight). Why? Because the boys cannot handle waiting in line for check in, sitting on the tarmac, flying on the plane, or anything that involves them staying still for two seconds. They both also have ADHD, which doesn't help. However, for some reason, Mr Tobey LOVES riding in the car. He would do it all day and night if you let him. In fact, he is the best kid we have in the car...While the others skillfully and purposely plot and attempt each other's and our murder, he sits quietly, looking out the window, enjoying the ride.
Sometimes, I wonder if we couldn't all take a lesson from him. Sometimes, it's the trip, NOT the destination.
I love Toblerone...

Cartoons

I like cartoons. No, really, I mean it. I like cartoons. Almost all cartoons. I love watching them with my kids. Our favorites are "Chowder" and "Adventuretime".

However, Our all time favorite, is Phineas and Ferb. If you haven't heard of it, I have a questions...Was that rock you were living under cozy?

It's OK, my wife doesn't watch cartoons, either. Really, it's her loss. Cartoons have come a long ways since the years of The Pink Panther and Auggie Doggie.

Now, let's get one thing straight, I am not talking about any cartoon that has to deal with any type of weird role-playing from a deck of cards, or anything where the mouth does not match up with the words. If you like those, good for you. Turn down the TV, your mom can hear you in the basement.

No, the good cartoons are the smart ones. One I used to watch with my kids was Recess. That show, along with Phineas and Ferb, have two things in common. A.) They are both Disney cartoons, and B.) They are very good about throwing an adult a joke in there without the kids knowing. There have been several times when I laughed and my kids thought I was nuts...and it had nothing to do with my multiple personalities. ( quiet, Jennifer)

Anyway, if you read this, go ahead and leave a comment on your favorite cartoon, either past or present.

See you on Saturday morning!

I hate basketball

I hate basketball. The last time I watched a basketball game with interest, ther Indiana Pacers were in the finals of the championship. That was back when professional athletes could expect to only bring home a couple of million dollars a year. Ah, the good old days.

However, I find myself interested in the NCAA championship game! I fell out of my bracket in the sweet 16, but How about them Bulldogs? Let's go Indiana!!! As I type, I am keeping tabs on the score. And the Bulldogs are behind...but barely. Am I a fairweather fan? Sort of. I mean, I don't follow Bulldog basketball, or any basketball for that reason. But, the only team we have that has had any success is the Colts. And let's face it, I love the Colts, but this year's Superbowl was a heartbreaker!
With that being said, I hope the Bulldogs win. And for the love of God, can we have at least a .750 season for Irish Football?!

A New Direction

You know, here is the thing about blogging. It makes you narcissistic. I mean, you send this stuff out into the ether expecting someone to read it. After all, why else blog? Your opinion MUST matter to someone, right?

I have gone astray on my blog. As I read some of my older posts, I realize I got a little too preachy. Now, don't get me wrong. I am a DIE HARD Christian, a Christ disciple if you will. However, to quote a friend of mine, I occasionally drop an F bomb, and I don't mean "fart". ( I can do that well, too)

But, I have decided that I no longer wish to preach. If someone asks me about Jesus, I will be there to answer what I can and direct them to where they need to be. But, insomuch as this blog is concerned, I promise not to write it from my soapbox anymore...

That being said, you should check out my wife's blog. It is http://holstein9.blogspot.com

We have two autistic sons and 5 daughters...(most of the time, it is the daughters that give us the grief, but don't tell them that...I am out numbered :P )

So, from here on in, It is going to be me, au naturel...well, sort of. I promise to keep my clothes on.

The write up

I pride myself in doing the best job possible at everything I do. Am I the best? No, but I am my best. So imagine my dismay when I, through absolute stupidity on my part, CRASHED the head of my mill. @ $8000 damage later, I was officially wrote up.

Have you ever done something wrong, and at the time, you knew it was wrong or not the right thing to do, but you did it anyway? How many choices do we make in life, and how many are the right ones. I know of 8 choices I have made that are great. Watching the AFC championship game was one of them. Just kidding, although, it was a great game for Colts fans. Is there a better QB than Peyton?

Ok, back to subject...I am batting a .080 for great choices in my life, but i am working to make it a .500 Wish me luck!!!

birthdays birthdays birthdays

This is a picture of me and Olivia Grace. She had a birthday on January 8 when she turned 7 years old. Olivia is an extremely bright girl. She loves princesses and playing with her sisters.


It is amazing how the time flies. I still remember bringing her home...the weather was bitterly cold that day. The hospital was so inactive that, even though she was born on January 8, she was the new year's baby for Starke county.
The little dude on the right, as you may know from a previous post, is Tobey. 12 days and two years after Gracie was born, Tobey was born.
You know, thinking back, I just am amazed at my family. We are not perfect, nor do we try to be. But, we love each other...completely. If there is one thing I try to instill in my kids, it is love each other!
Happy Birthday, Kids!!!! Daddy Loves you!

Let's do the time warp...again!

Wow! As I look at the history of this thing, I realize, I haven't posted since before Thanksgiving! With the holiday season, especially with my family, things get so busy that, before you know it, it's valentine's day! And don't get me started on valentines and hallmark!!! IT'S A CONSPIRACY, I TELL YOU!!!! Eh, Mr Costanza had it right...Time for the airing of the grievances!!!! *just kidding*

At any rate, we have had a fantastic two months! First and foremost, we have been an especially blessed family this year. Our church, Living Stones, had an all-in-er who decided he wanted to bless two families in the church who were all-in and did work with the church. Bless Pastor Sam, we were the first family he thought of...long story short, we got 4 new tires mounted on the suburban as well as a machine that helps assist Tobey in talking! It doesn't matter what our church has done for us...we LOVE our church!

Now, it is January 3, 2010, and I am glad the holidays are over. We were especially ready for them this year, and I think we had just enough Christmas! So, here are some resolutions for 2010:

1. Update my blog more often. I don't really know how many people read this, but for those of you that do, I want to make sure you are getting your money's worth!


2. Think of intersting anecdotes and stories to put on my blog;


3. Appreciate the Aglet more...I mean, really, without it, where would you be? shoeless...or in comfortable sandals;


4. Love more!!!

Now, Number 4 is interesting. We are all examples in life...some are examples of how TO live your life, others are examples of what NOT to do. I have decided that I want to be the former. I am not saying that people look to my example for their lives, nor am I saying I want them to! However, in life, you are either one or the other, so you have to choose. And, I want my kids to look to me in their adult lives and say,"I am doing that THIS way, it's how Dad would have done it."

I think all too often, we see too many examples of people taking the wrong path in life. No one wants to be Tiger Woods right now, or Brittany Murphy. In fact, I think we see a lot of people who would rather not be in their own shoes! It takes work and courage to find the positives in life.

Well, that's about all for now...later this month and year, I will tell about the paths my family have taken and how we suffered AND benefited from them. And you will be surprised at which is which!

Until then, God's Blessing on all of you!